Okay Pop, I’ll see you in  a couple of days were your last words to me, followed up, by “I love you Pop” to which Daddy replied, “I love you more” then be careful going back to Turlock and you responded, I will Pop. You left here at 7:20 am and we received the dreaded telephone call no parent ever wants to receive. You left here at 7:20 am were ushered into eternity in just 8 minutes.

Our first-born, our only son. Wow, what a 50 year love affair we had with you. Mom and I wouldn’t trade away one moment. Everything about you is loved and missed so desperately, especially, all the good, the bad and everywhere in between. Oh, to change it all and have that 8 minute span of time back and to have you back.

You were the only boy baby born at Doctor’s Medical Center on November 10, 1969 and your love for girls began right then and there. Mom and I both are sure of that.

You grew, good natured in every way from a beautiful baby to a very handsome man who has left this world, way too soon.

You are survived by your children, Stephanie , Megan  and your son Tommy . 

Predeceased by your own son, Trevor.

Survived by, Your Pop and Mama, Wylie Dean & Donna Colleen McAbee and your one sister, Dana Colleen/ Johnny. Your two nieces, DeRae Victoria  Colleen and Taylor ReNae and you only nephew Devin Mercado.

Predeceased by your paternal Grandparents Wylie & Mozell McAbee, maternal Grandparents Joe & Lilly Gibbs and your best friend and cousin Richie Gibbs. 

You were and are truly loved by so many friends, it’s almost unbelievable, not really because it is who you were on this earth, non-judgmental and a friend to all.

Visitation will be held from 2 pm ~ 5 pm on Tuesday, December 31, 2019 at Allen Mortuary. Celebration of Life will be held at 1 pm on Thursday, January 2, 2020 also at Allen Mortuary.